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Yoke

How to Reframe Negative Thoughts: An NLP Tool for Leaders

In June 2023, I walked onto a keynote stage on crutches, wearing a moonboot and hiding tears from the drive over. What I told that audience turned my worst professional moment into my most memorable opening line. In this post I share two NLP reframing techniques you can use to shift a negative thought before you walk into your next high-stakes meeting.
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In June 2023, I delivered a keynote on crutches, in a moonboot, after crying the whole drive there. What I said on that stage turned pain into my best opening line. Here are two NLP reframing techniques to shift a negative thought before your next high-stakes meeting.

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Presentations
Yoke

How to Make a Killer Speech That Sticks

Public speaking is more than just delivering a message—it’s about connecting with your audience, engaging their emotions, and leaving a lasting impact. Whether you’re speaking

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Presentations
Yoke

How to quickly write a meaningful speech

My mom was recently asked to speak at her friend’s 70th birthday party,
and I gave her a few pointers to write her speech. See if the structure works for you.
(this is a real photo of my sister’s dog Bela)

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Leadership
Yoke

Why you should adapt your message to your audience every time

While waiting for a hotel room in Dubai, I received a last-minute booking to speak at the Association’s Indaba, where I had to quickly adapt my message to address the unique challenges associations face. Drawing on my leadership experience with Toastmasters and the Professional Speakers Association, I crafted a talk that offered actionable strategies for improving member engagement and driving conversions.

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Presentations
Yoke

Avoid a technology failure at your next sales presentation or showcase

In this article, I share essential tips for in-person sales meetings, from allowing extra time for travel and venue access to preparing a backup plan in case technology fails. If you’re looking to elevate your sales presentations and equip your team with the skills and confidence they need, I’m here to help.

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Presentations
Yoke

5 reasons to speak on any platform

Why should you consider speaking on any platform, online or in person? In this article Yoke van Dam, Presentation coach shares how it increases your authority and influence the moment you are in front of the room.

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